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Sir, you've a Beautiful Wife

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Sep 11 2008, 7:54 pm - By good4nothingfellow

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Few years ago, in the middle of an exam, an examiner caught me off-guard by asking me a question abt Racism. He (he was a Bengali) said that,
When any white people catagorise us by the color of our skin , we quickly come to conclusion dat s/he is Racist. Yet young men in our countries r ready 2marry,they all want fair(forsha)bride!isn't that Racist?

I must admit dat i simply couldn't ans dat question,dat's actually more complicated than it appears.
Also,while on d subject of grace &beauty, hav u ever told any man that He has a beautiful wife?
No!
Why no?
U'll not fine a single man on earth who doesn't want a beautifull wife& there r a plenty of lucky men who 've managed 2find very beautiful wives. Yet if u (if u r a male) go 2one of those lucky guys & tell him dat his Wife is beautiful,there's a good chance dat next you'll find urself in a hospital,although u've no idea how u arrived there.

So,wat's d truth with us men?we want beautifull wives,get it, then when some1 mentions dat 2us ,we lose our Temper! And if dat wasn't baffling enough , wat would happen if u told some1 dat his wife is UGLY?

Come on,now,gentlemen, don't be Cheeky and stop it.
1. Thanks all for replying to this topic by good4nothingfellow 2. interesting hmmm by typical_pwinecess_A
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Sep 11 2008, 8:57 pm - Replied by: Mana_Jaan

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I think that man would be embarassed but since im a gla i can never judge another women saying she's ugly cz i myslef am EWWW UGLY haaaa...soo if i were to say that, mayb that man would think im a disrespectful person..or maybe ..umm idkk....


i think this question suits GUYS then us girls

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Sep 11 2008, 9:37 pm - Replied by: Bruce7k

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First of all, I have neither wife nor girlfriend righ now. So how can I... ?



Second, there're number of ways of saying something. If one says it very polite way, he's not likely to be given a hard blow resulting senselessness. If it happens, possibly he's expressed it in a bad or filthy way...



Third, it's not good / polite at all to call a person a ungly one. One does it, he deserves a blow.

Sep 11 2008, 9:38 pm - Replied by: S_is_here

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you're totally right about the family looking for fair girls for their songs...why does the looks even matter? it's the personality and the family she's coming from


seriously like i always say, if those family wants fair girl, they might as well just choose a white girl from a white country..it'll be so much damn easy for them


total stupidness..no offence to anyone but that's how i truely feel


It's nothing wrong to compliment someone, but if the man is married and says that about another wife, then whoa he'll be hearing it from his wife at home

Sep 11 2008, 10:07 pm - Replied by: asifgone

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the cause lies in the human instinct and in hormones (dont hv enough place in mbs to explain it) that makes fairness the true judgement of beauty. we grow up to feed upon society's view....blah blah blah..u get the point rite? hehe.

anyone read any of the Buddhist texts like Dhammapada or Theraveda Pali Canon? if u do..u'll LOVE this quote (even if u dont i guess..maybe)...

"To say that he is not reborn would not fit the case. To say that he is both reborn and not reborn would not fit the case. To say that he is neither reborn nor not reborn would not fit the case. 

"All sensation...

"ALl perception...

............"


Sep 12 2008, 6:00 am - Replied by: onontoaakash

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Vaire ami r boli ki. Tora je ja bolish vai amar ekta tuktuke lal bou chai. This is true on d othrhnd it is also true that your pair God gifted. Tai kobi nijere shantona dear jonno bollo "kalo r dholo bahire kebol, vitore sovar soman ranga"

Sep 12 2008, 7:38 am - Replied by: senorita

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i think, YEAH...come on now..

dun be stupid nomore
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Sep 12 2008, 5:45 pm - Replied by: neha_222

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beauty by nature every should remember dat.


shobay jodi sundor bou chai tha hole kalo meyeder ki hobe.

Sep 12 2008, 6:59 pm - Replied by: jazz13

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 it,s a complicated topic but i can tell u every man wants a beautiful wife,that does n,t mean she has to be very fairy.but now this mentality is changing .....even parent,s giving priority their son to choice life partner .so here fairness does n,t come really.but if we look fairy .......now it,s totally unacceptable.but we cann,t use here racist word in this topic. it,s dangerous and heavy word.
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Sep 12 2008, 7:31 pm - Replied by: gundapola

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neha_222 wrote:

beauty by nature every should remember dat.


shobay jodi sundor bou chai tha hole kalo meyeder ki hobe.

kalo meye der o biye hobe....

r e 1 ta gaan ache na....

Tumi sundoro jodi nahi how.....tobe bolo kiba jay ashe.... priyar ki rup shei jane, shei jane ... ogo je kokhono valobashe...

Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
Sep 12 2008, 10:00 pm - Replied by: good4nothingfellow

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Kalo meye der vitor 1ta alada beauty thak jeta normally onno der moddhe rare.and that beauty amar kase onono lage

neha_222 wrote:

beauty by nature every should remember dat.


shobay jodi sundor bou chai tha hole kalo meyeder ki hobe.

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