Interesting thread.
I don't believe in long term friendships with any random people! Alhamdullilah I'm so glad that I'm not one of those people who get attached with people so easily.
BUT Alhamdulillah I do have strong bonds with my best friend for 16 years, and there are special people that I grew up with who I love them so much for the sake of Allah.
They are people who comes in your life and stays short term only...and I am one of those people.
It's online, I made online friends for fun and I don't plan on carrying it on...
As for my I'm trying to ask for Allah's forgiveness, and I feel like like it's wrong of me talking to men who are not related to me at all. Our friendships will not go anywhere and it will only lead me to Jahannam.
I do have guys friends who I know them... my whole life, they knows how I am...so I told them how it works with me. lol
Thank you so much for everything, you are one of the best people I've met online. I hope you stay like that. Take care of your wife and be good! This world is nothing but a tempoary world so don't get attached with anyone so easily.
Treat your wife kindly, those who treats their wife kindly are the best of all Mu'meen (believer)